Making the cross country move?!?

Taylor and I have been seriously considering packing up and moving across the country to San Diego. We are thinking of San Diego because of its weather, diversity and because its proximity to Mexico for surprise trips over the border. It’s already tough enough leaving family and potentially leaving our jobs to start fresh. In addition to that stress, Taylor was just told that she is now being looked at for a promotion. Now she’s conflicted, I’m conflicted and not sure where to go. 

What do you think? We were pretty set on the move to California and getting new jobs. We both have mixed feelings about our current positions and excited to leave retail for something new in San Diego. 

What do you all think? We’re young, should we pack up and go or stay and take advantage of much better promotion? ($$$$)